Sunday, November 16, 2008

ALONE

This word is just combination of 5 different letters and this word is always associated with each and every person through out their life in one or another form.

If you want to define this word than "Physically separated from surrounding" and if you want dictionary meaning than it is "solitary".

It always accompanies with human from their birth to death. Meanwhile you may come in contact with many personalities but they are for some time not for lifetime.

You are alone in making your decision, you are alone in setting of your goal, you are alone in process of achievement, you are alone with your achievement and obviously you are alone during your awful period .if you says that I am not alone & always associated with my parents and friends. Then this is wrong. They are there for just supporting you.

One best thing about this word is there are five different letter and they all are alone. None of them is repeating. The main idea behind writing of this is that if you understand this fact about your life during your good period or your period where sun never set. Then it will create lesser pain during your bad period.

You must come across this type incident. If you get success in your work, people came to you and says "I am the one, who help you " "I give you this or that" but when you get failure in your work at that time this people not come to you and says that "I advice you but it did not work "it is some what my failure also" you are always alone with your failure.

Same thing if you take word success then there are two letter, which are repeating it means you are always accompanies by some one during your success.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Financial transaction of life

In any financial transaction two persons are always involved. One is money lender and one who borrow money and as per finance, money lender’s hand is always above then other one.

Here in life, transaction done in terms of emotions not in money. You add pleasure in another person’s life then you are lending some good moments to him and opposite person borrowing that from you and he has to repay it.

One difference in this transaction is that repayment period isn’t fixed. It may be of some hrs. to endless time.

This is the whole process of transaction and you & me play role of both in our life more than once but we always done some mistake.

When we are emotional lender and we show that opposite person has some good moment in his life but he isn’t involving you in it. Then you really become unhappy (upset).

This is like you borrow some money to other person and after some time he has some extra money so you think that now he will back your money but he hasn’t doing what you had thought then you become upset.

In counter part this is a human nature that he always try to forget unwanted things. when we borrow something from somebody then we always try to repay later. If you have these things with you then also you want to be late in repayment process.

Main problem in this system is that here transaction done in terms of emotions (Good moments) not in money so you can’t measure at the end of transaction who will be the looser.

Some things will be happened between you and god when you are sad he added some good moments so he become lender and you become borrower but when we will have good moments we forget GOD. We don’t think of repayment. We think about it when we come to first place of transaction or you can say when again we will become emotional bankrupt.

Then also he never thinks about our mistake and continuous lending good moments in our life. When we aren’t doing repayment process honestly next time some other person do same thing with you so at the end of life you will come to zero emotional level.

So friends in life when ever you become emotional lender forget that you had lender something to somebody because then you don’t expect of repayment and later stages when you get back your emotions then you become happy.

Until now I know one sentence but now I understand the meaning of it. It is “Naki kar aur dariya me dal”